Saturday, January 10, 2015

Dallas, A Shining Example ???

My little corner of the universe is a city named Dallas. If you haven't ever visited this now all grown up little prairie town, you should. She is world class, a true international gem. Even if you haven't stopped by in a few years, come back, and prepare to be impressed. If you've lived here for a while, like a child that has grown up before your eyes, it happened all around you and you hardly noticed; but here she is, something very special, a very shiny city with so much promise. What shall our child do with herself? There is so much opportunity! Much of which lies in how we take care of our less shiny parts.

All around there is an architectural feast. The performing arts venues, the visual art museums and galleries, including the Nasher Sculpture Center, which by itself put the moniker of "world class city" in conversation, all are brilliantly designed and curating the best in their art forms. High-rise buildings down, up and all around town have created a skyline to rival any other. Residential, commercial and public buildings by the world’s most renowned architects abound. The new Klyde Warren Park, bridging downtown to uptown is a testament to the drive of the people and leaders in the city. It also serves as a keynote for a city that has set aside more green-space than any other in the country.


Speaking of bridges, the Margaret Hunt Hill (Santiago Calatrava designed) bridge has become a new icon for the City (and it's about to be flanked by two more similar beauties. Less visionary people have referred to that bridge as a bridge to nowhere, when in fact it is the result of some dedicated city leaders over decades to be sure our city grew well in all directions, not just the traditional north. 



I could go on and on about the architecture, the amenities, the ease of travel and the accessibility of all that one could want, including suburbs and an amazing city in its own right (Fort Worth) just 30 miles to our west. In fact I must interject that with all that Dallas has to offer, Fort Worth may well be one of the best cities to live in the country and offers a culture and arts ethos that are also world class. The Kimball and The Modern Museums are both amazing structures, housing amazing collections and events. And between these fine cities sets the DFW International airport, now boasting direct flights to every corner of the world. DFW is one the major economic catalyst for the area.

Yes, we have find sports teams, but let's talk economics. Dallas is a prominent player in the global energy industry, and recent years have proven to be some of the most significant in production. Dallas and Texas in general has proven to be a resilient area in terms of economic performance…avoiding the depth of recession felt by other areas. World wide fossil fuel dependency has certainly proven beneficial to the local economy; however, statistically Dallas is quite a diversified economy as well, and businesses are relocating headquarter operations here in record numbers. A young, educated and highly skilled workforce is one of the reasons for the attraction. This area is simply a well-developed, wonderfully livable, transportation friendly, multiple-urbanized "Metroplex".

Of course we have problems, and as the cliché goes “problems are just challenges, and challenges are opportunities.” Albeit our challenges are high in volume and mass, and it follows then, so are our breadth of opportunities. The good news -- we are exceptionally positioned to deal with them, and make The City of Dallas and beyond more than "shiny". Dallas can and should be an outstanding example of how cities wrestle and win the intertwined fights against poverty, homelessness, hunger, and substance abuse. Education is not mentioned as a problem because it is the lack of education that is the major problem; and moreover education is one of the major weapons in dire need of gentrification. 

Here’s the thing – part one: We are a city with strong and engaged leadership – political, business, educational, religious et al, who are dedicated and well versed on facing these challenges. They are ready. It seems that the leadership just needs the intransigent masses to wake up and join the pursuit. Mayor Rawlins and his predecessors have and are pushing on all fronts. Larry James and his CitySquare mission are absolute paradigms in the fight against the base causes of poverty. Yes, they are providing jobs. Yes, they are providing life skills and work skill training. Yes, they have developed scores of social bridge and elevation processes; YES they are chipping away at the poverty challenge. Plenty of examples of leadership and change methods abound, but help is needed.

Here’s the thing – part two: (I only accuse that of which I am guilty.) We, of medium means and above, are hiding. We live in our nice homes in our nice neighborhoods, and we figure out ways to get our kids in the few nice schools, and we shield our views from the realities so near. It’s time to change. It’s past time to change, and the required change is mildly disruptive, yet loaded with reward.

First, let’s all pop our heads out of our fairy land and look at the real world surrounding us. Second, let’s say in unision “wow, look at this great community and all of the opportunity for me to help”, and finally let’s do a little “googling” and find out where we can apply our resourceful wherewithal to get behind our awaiting leadership.


Micro to macro -- individual change affects other individuals, which affects the community, which affects the state, which affects the nation, which affects the world. I can, you can, and we can do this, Dallas! We can do this, Metroplex! We can do this, United States!

Friday, January 2, 2015

SOUL SELFIE

I'm holding my phone (camera, crazy cool hand held computer) as far out as I can. STOP, Okay now I have it on an extension arm. Still not good enough to capture my Selfie Image...at least not the way I see me. So, I'll have to snap shot this one with words for me to see me! (You can look too.)

No doubt you have heard the expression "he or she is an old soul". I've met many people, young people who seem to be "old souls" They seem to have special wisdom, better clarity on how the world unfolds...certainly a better understanding of life's deeper meaning than I have. 

As an older person, beginning to gain small amounts of wisdom, I'm convinced I must be a "young soul", even an adolescent soul, impetuous, chasing all that glitters, like a puppy that can't decide which toy to play with. One friend many years ago referred to me as a "flake". Geez, the truth can be painful, but not too much for a young soul like me. I was too flakey at the time to grasp the accusation! 

Just because I changed jobs every time I received another offer -- just because I couldn't maintain relationships, just because I loved to move (my mother said I moved every time the rent came due)...and just because I have embraced all matter of change and pounced on all kinds of things that looked good at the time, does that make me flakey? Well perhaps, or maybe that kind of behavior is just indicative of a "young soul".

Oh I admire, even envy, old souls though they don't seem to have as much fun as young souls. I do sense the elder souls get some entertainment out of we young souls. In business I really admire the old souls. It seems to provide them a prescient edge. Take for instance real estate investors who buy properties and have visions of developing those properties over decades and do so successfully. It's a challenge for me to have any sense of the future beyond the now.The notion that I would ever age by a decade always escaped me. I must be a toddler soul! I've sold out of most ventures, just when they were warming up. My old soul partners made a lot more money that I did, but I've always enjoyed the start-up phase.

We young souls are so emotionally volatile - while older souls have a much more calm approach to life. The well seasoned souls seem to never bet too high, nor too low. They are so even keel, even in rough seas. We young souls do seem to laugh harder, and cry harder as well. I cry at all movies seriously...must be a baby soul!!

Here's the rub, old souls vs. new souls presupposes some on-going participation in the Universe. Reincarnation if you will, a concept which as a young soul I have trouble grasping. So, I wonder if older souls than mine believe in that stuff. I wonder if old souls have some awareness of having been a young soul previously. I hope so. I'd definitely like to try being an old soul one day, but it doesn't seem to be likely in this life time.

Oh well, it's cool to be alive and wondering about my soul. I am resolving to make 2015 a determinative year, a year in which I reach some level of middle aged soul Nirvana. I'm committed to tempering my youthful enthusiasm with a splash or two of experience based wisdom. After all things that are tempered are stronger. Did a young soul just say that?

Happy 2015 to all souls young and old! May we all eventually become like Old King Cole... Jolly Old Souls.

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Holy Procrastination, Fate, and Moderation!

Man O Man!  Where have I been? It's been way too long since I have found time for this meditation medium! Or maybe it's a catharsis vehicle...whatever I need to rant. No pictures this time, you place your own mental pictures, where need be.

Regarding FATE: I think fate, even destiny are real universe factors..don't you think? You kind of know it when you're in a fateful time. It's a bit like surfing, you don't create the wave, you just look for it, feel it and ride it as best you can.  You also have to be careful of a "wipeout"!  I've experienced bullet proof attitudes on fate rolls, it never ends well...tossed up on the beach, bruised and half drowned. Yes, I have made the same mistakes more than once - such a putz!

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I am riding a fateful event series even now.  Amazing career twists have fallen upon me, but this time I am cautious, proclaiming my enthusiasm based vulnerability, trying not to get too tricky...no "hanging ten" this time. I'll provide more details as the surf subsides. Look for "a funny thing happened on the way to retirement".

Speaking of mistakes and bad judgement: I've often thought about the errors (often horrible errors) born of ignorance that we as individuals and as a collective society have made (and make).  Racial prejudice...as a child growing up, I just didn't get it...separate water fountains, separate bathrooms, schools, entrances to restaurants...all seemed to be just "the way it is". How horrible.  Thank God, some (few at the time) could see the ignorance of our ways and initiate some long term change. Astonishingly, some among us still don't get it.

The list of traditional ignorance born atrocities is long, too long and continues!  Obviously we are not over the hump of racial prejudice at home or around the world, but strides have clearly been made. Gender prejudice, religious prejudice, AGE prejudice continues. and plenty more that I am too ignorant to list.

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I do wonder what I (we) are blind to just now. What are the issues that we will look back on in a decade or so and say, "how ignorant we were then"? Planet sabotage may well be a big one.  I remember growing up, we just through trash out on the highways, somehow thinking the earth would soak it all up.  Until finally we noticed our land looked a mega mess from our misuse. Still today we have to have "Don't mess with Texas" campaigns and the like to help us with our ignorance. Are our eyes closed wide open again?

What do you reckon we are doing to the planet? Are we going to bake ourselves out of existence with our ignorance.  Send me a note would you? Tell me what you think? Tell me what you think it is we are missing now. Where is our major blind spot?  Economic prejudice, human rights, water conservation?  What are the issues we are missing while we are so busy fussing over probably less important things.

With all of that said, I think I'll stop rambling. I've written on moderation before, so I won't re-preach in full, but I will say,  that I will be surfing fate and attempting to reap the benefits in moderation. I will do what I can to moderate my abuse of the planet. I will take a moderate listen to both sides of issues, including the causes of global climate change. I may move to a more moderate climate, if I can find it. I'd like to give some effort to helping cure the causes of poverty and the prejudice that is associated with it.

I will not moderately tolerate hatred or other vile behaviors born of ignorance.

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Monday, March 18, 2013

The DeFrosty Spring Charity Golf Classic

Don't you dare miss it! Many of you know of the inaugural Frost Charity Golf Classic, held this past December.  Whether you missed it or made it, don't you dare miss the Spring version on April 1st...The DeFrosty.  In fact, don't let your clients, suppliers, friends miss it!

Do you really want to miss this?!
The 15th at Stevens Park
Yes sir, that's right, Stevens Park in Oak Cliff -- she's had an extreme makeover, she will be a very plush green by April 1, welcoming all comers.

focusEGD is the proud sponsor. For 75 bucks, you can enjoy a great day with spirited folks. Carts, lunch and perhaps a beverage, and prizes are included. Best of all the proceeds benefit CitySquare, where war is being waged on the root causes of poverty (and progress is being made).

If you are someone's customer and the seller keeps asking you to join them for golf one day.  Call them up now, and say, "hey, I've got a deal for you..."  If you are a business developer and have been dying to treat a key prospect to just the right afternoon, well...

Fore!!!  Great golf coming your way!!

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

In a Rut

Imagine you're in a deep ditch, a rut, if you will, one that you cannot see out over the egde. Pretend that ditch is just a few feet wide and seems infinite in length...no end in sight.  You can see a bit of blue sky, and a little green grass over the edge, but that's it. You're in a rut!

Most of the time when we hear someone say, "I am stuck in a rut", we get a sense that they are just in a bit of a repetitive loop, just doing the same old things, the same old way. Perhaps it's a bit more profound, however. To the person in a rut, it can feel much more daunting, even depressive. A rut can feel almost impossible to climb out of.

What is one to do? Search for a root! Create a toe hold of some kind and reach for the edge and pull one's self up! Often efforts to get out of rut feel futile. Even though we try to escape, our footing can feel like we are not getting traction...our toe holds are giving way.  That's when we have to reach deep inside and find Presence to give us the strength to keep trying.  Sometimes we have to call for help.  Everyone needs a helping hand at times. Perhaps we just need to look for another opening, more sky, more breathing room.  

In any case the first step is to recognize ruts and look to make a change, ignoring whatever and/or whomever makes us feel bound.  Ready? Get set, let's go. That simple.



Friday, February 8, 2013

Laughter...


Yesterday I dealt with sadness, today I am ready to lighten up!  I mentioned positives and negatives, Yin and Yang, opposite ends of the spectrum that hopefully have a balance point.


Think about laughter and it's counter emotional eruption, crying...fascinating things we humans do, and there is quite a bit of evidence that other animals do as well.  But think about it, what makes us move over the line from smiling to gutteral utterances of joy?  I'll bet our laughter types are all as unique as our fingerprints. 

Check this baby out!  Happy to be born, doesn't know about all that is about to happen, right?
I want that utter bliss and the loss of control that goes with it! Just like this sweet child!



 Of course Clooney laughs all the time, all the way to the bank, all the way to the next beautiful girlfriend. However he doesn't always laugh. He doesn't laugh at the other side. He seeks to help.  Oops, I'm slipping...laugh it up George!

Ah hahahahhahahaha, cackle, cough, oh oh oh, har, har, Ah hahahahaha!


Are you laughing yet? I hope so, if not think of one of the dumbest yet funniest things you have ever done, and let it go.  You deserve to laugh, you are created to laugh (and to cry) but today we are on laughter, so go for it.  Laugh it up!

LOOK, even forced laughter helps! In some cases it might be a matter of life or death!





Even Mona Lisa cracked up, during one setting! 





Are you laughing yet? Please do, let it go, hopefully in public, then watch those around you. You know it's contagious.  We could use an epidemic of laughter. It's therapy, and it will help us face the serious with more aplumb. After all there is sadness in need of repair. Think I will start with myself.  Ah, ha, ha......


Have a fun weekend, friends.



Thursday, February 7, 2013

Positives?

I was just about to post a little thought about the balance of things, the positives and the negatives, the pros and cons, the yin-yangs of life, you know. Just before I began, I paused to read Larry James' Urban Daily Blog, which is always poignant, and often painful...today, particularly heart wrenching for me. 

Please take just a moment and read Larry's comments, regarding "Sadness, Deep Sadness", and pay special attention to the final call and question: 

Poverty creates a foreboding culture defined largely by deep, thick sadness.

Good news to the poor always involves driving the sadness out of life--a mission that can be accomplished only in a community that embraces sadness.  To deliver hope a community must live out of a commitment to understanding, honest self-evaluation, and radical dependence on those who know this sadness best, those who live it out every day. 

I wonder if we're up to it?


To answer Larry's question, we have to be up to it!  I know Larry and the fine folks of CitySquare face it everyday, while most of the rest of us choose to turn our mind's eye away. I am very grateful to CitySquare, who try desperately, yet methodically to help our neighbors. I also know that Larry and his team have a foundational belief that "the light shall overcome the darkness".  However, it is so hard to envision a necessary quorum of us, being up to facing sadness, bred of poverty and dealing with it, but we simply must be up to it.  

Larry, you have shown us a way, and the message lives vibrantly. In growing numbers we must open our eyes to the sadness, embrace it indeed and expand the solutions you have initiated.

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In maturity one begins to see repeatable patterns in life. Yes, with good comes bad, and even negative events usher in new opportunities. Positive and negative charges make the world work elementally   Our decisions rarely yield perfect results, but rather the sets of good things and the not so good. Often, what seems a positive move, yields unexpected negative consequences. Pendulums swing from left to right, dark to light, and offer the possibility of balance, sustainability.

But the weight of sadness, profound sadness, seems not to have a counter balance...or does it? Is there hope? Is there even minuscule possibility for joy, true happiness? I think yes, if we are up to facing the sadness of our neighbors and believing in the potential for light.  If we can learn from the sadness, find hope, and participate in solutions, perhaps some sadness can be made to change directions.  Perhaps, just perhaps...   

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Stitched up!!

"....stitched up, outta my mind..."lyrics from a John Mayer jazz duet.  Yep, went under the knife recently for a hernia repair.  Apparent cause - heavy cocktail lifting and over exertion on tee shots, and aging as a possible abettor!  

Oh well modern health care served me well...highest costs in the civilized world, not so much.  Great wife, self appointed recovery physician, priceless.  Cut me off of cocktails and golf for a while, but insists on a quick return to heavy sexual activity as therapy! Go figure.

I'm a lucky guy in all respects.  One thinks of such things while convalescing.  Having a great wife, meaningful work, super friends, fine children (grown and responsible).  I can't ask for much more.  

I have to include on that list many amazing new friends...glad to know you!  Thanks for all of your kind wishes and caring.  Now, back to work! We have a 2013 economy to build, a planet to improve, and peace to develop, one to one and globally...not for the wimpy. Let's start by dropping the silly battles.  Nobody is going to take your pistol away.  Get over yourself, think big picture, eh?

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Harmony!

The beauty of voice harmony is quite a wonder.  I'm always amazed at talent...it's essence...what it says about humanity, what it might say about transcendance...the other.  Harmony however, speaks about the equation of talent...about being equal, while distinctively different.

I was just listening to the weekly "Prairie Home Companion" radio show, and they regularly feature harmonic voice pieces...basics you know, bass, baritone, tenor, alto and soprano. It's beautifully simple, and it spoke to me...well sang to me!

Each of us is given our own key, our octave if you will.  Some are quite talented of course, and the balance are perfectly pitched for our own ears, particularly when accompanied by a fine shower orchestra. 

Paul McCartney co-founded the fab four...the Beatles, and his harmonies with John Lennon created frenzied fan behavior.  He later wrote a song, "Ebony and Ivory" and performed it along with Michael Jackson.  A tribute to harmony, a salute to the value of the individual and the beauty of the combination.  Obviously the song's image is the key board, which indeed is visually incredible...88 perfectly aligned and entwined keys, that connect to 88 beautiful tones.  

Each key has its own voice and can be combined with other keys for perfect harmony and resonance.  Moreover, American jazz pioneers proved that even atonal sounds have their own special beauty...off beat rhythms can be respected and cherished.

Millions of hues make up our color, countless views form our consciousness, and in every mix harmony can be found, art can be created.  Beauty is there...appreciation is indeed the choice of the beholder!  I choose not to criticize art (talent) that I don't fully comprehend...I know the beauty and the harmony is there, even if I can't see it.  May each of us see more harmony in 2013.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

The Untangling

Remember this photo?  Yep, that little tree on the right is the one of which I was so proud of it's decoration (and my work) a few weeks ago. I bragged then that it held at my estimate ONE MILLION plus lights.

Yesterday, my son and I began to remove those million lights. You may find this hard to believe, but it was unbelievably challenging.  I would have sworn that I just utilized a ladder to reach the top...but either I rented a "cherry picker" or the tree grew a foot or two!

My dedication to the "million points of light" created a tangle that rivaled a wire haired terrier's coat in appearance! The reindeer were removed before the de-decorating began. I wanted no audience whatsoever for this wrap of the season. Even still, distant chuckles could be heard regularly.

Nonetheless, another seasonal accomplishment was finally completed.  I even sorted the crates, to move Easter's equipment to the front of our storage barn.  I'm the poster child for organization for early 2013!  Happy New Year every one...may your days ahead not be tangled, and may you shine brightly!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Did you receive one...a Miracle of the Season?  I pray that you did, because I think I received more than my share.  If you noted my earlier "blahg" about seasonal decorating, you will remember that on the eve of my season of dread, one of those spirits that perhaps visited Ebenezer came my way!

That was the beginning, that was the turning point.  It's been miraculous and inspiring ever since.  I won't bore you with the details.  Few people really want to hear how good it is going for someone else.  Just know this: every wish (humble though they be) has been granted. My primary wishes, only one with an exponent. The best Christmas and Holiday season ever for my wife!

What would that take?

  • Her daughter around for two full days, helping with the cooking, playing games, watching movies, and enjoying the seasonal giving, etc.
  • Great meals, great friends, and warm Christmas family love and gift exchange
  • A movie, a Christmas Home Decoration tour
  • Nice but not extravagant gifts and stocking stuffers
  • A white Christmas
Check, check, check, check, check. Christina was awesome as a house guest. The meals were fun to make and turned out exceptionally well. The three dogs and a cat that stayed at our house, wreaked very little havoc!

The movie was quite good, and as we came out of the movie at 3 pm.  I said, "sweetheart" take a look outside.  She screamed with glee like a small child, her "little girl" released in full! As she screamed with glee, tears ran down my face...again you know not how many other things have happened to me in the past several days, and it matters not.  Just know, I believe! And know this, I have a responsibility and still time left to make this a more joyful season for others.  I'm sure going to try.

Merry Christmas everyone and a very Happy New Year.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Getting in the Spirit

Ding jingaling, jingaling, jing!  I'm in the spirit!  I dreaded this past weekend--the annual (drag out the crates and "trim" the tree, house and everything that gets in the way) decorating weekend.  More negative than usual this year...I'm also thinking about how can I afford the gifts I need to buy.  Certainly I can't afford a decorating service like so many neighbors have.

Saturday morning comes along, and the Spirit of the Season apparently crept into me as I slept.  Up I get and off I go, gleefully to our storage area...happily I start on the outside, my wife and our daughter on the interiors...I pitch-in on that too, during some outdoor attention deficit moments. Check this out...
I put 1,347,989 lights on that little tree at our entry. Well, at least that's my estimate.  I can tell you that I returned to the bargain store twice and loaded up on lights for both the inside and out.  NEIGHBORS, you missed out!  I cannot tell you how much fun I had.  You should be envious of me...professional installations aren't near as much fun.  By the way, my super duper wife, begged the reindeer off of some guy, whose house she passed and thought he had too many! Hohoho (rather than LOL) He agreed!

If you think I am kidding you're wrong.  I've even tuned my satellite music to a couple of happening Christmas stations. I have never understood things of Spirit, but I'm in the grip.

Happy Holiday Season Everyone

Thursday, November 29, 2012

The Frosty for City Square

The most wonderful thing happend to me on the way to get a few friends together for golf!  Frankly it feels a bit providencial...kharmish if you will.  One day I wouldn't be surprised to find myself saying "miraculous".  

Only two weeks ago I reached out to several friends and said "hey, let's play golf, let's do it on December 10th and in the spirit of the season, let's each donate a little $$ for charity.  Fast forward two weeks, we have over twenty people signed up for what has become the Frosty Charity Golf Classic! 
We're on a roll and we have a chance to raise some nice money for CitySquare! 
Now that's the best part...that's where Providence seems to have taken the wheel. 

My firm happens to be doing some professional work for CitySquare, formerly know as Central Dallas Ministries, led by Larry James.  In short this is an incredible urban focused organization, successfully addressing the root causes of poverty!  In turn, poverty can lead to so many other problems...drug problems, gangs, and crimes of all types. Fighting poverty has an exponential effect for simply building a better world for everyone, but it is not an easy fight.

Check out http://www.citysquare.org and see what incredible things these folks are doing, particularly on the areas of hunger, housing, learning and hope!  So if your of a mind to have an unusually good time, playing golf AND would like to help a bit with the poverty fight, come join us!  We have a few spots left, so click here to sign up!

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Inevitabilites

Abominable inevitabilities...I try not to use either of those words in normal speech, since my tongue seems to get tangled on either word. Ah, but I can type those words and you can hear and understand them without having to try it out loud, a win-win scenario for blog dialogue!

Here are a couple of quick thoughts on why those words are on point just now. Having a major election behind us, we can all reflect on all of the Chicken Little - The Sky is Falling...the world will come to an end, if so and so is elected. The call for pessimism runs high, during election season! GOOD NEWS -- pessimism seems to breed opportunities and opportunists see light...often in the form of silver linings!

Abominable Inevitability #1 -- "Obamacare will ruin and break our country". 

The law is actually called The Affordable Healthcare Act, its focus is three-fold: Expanded healthcare insurance for the population, less expensive healthcare for all, and higher quality delivery of healthcare.  Sound impossible? As a capitalist, I can tell you that most of us in business wake up everyday with that challenge...more customers, better quality deliverables, lower price! Those issues are at the heart of our economic engine.

Check out major healthcare publications these days and you will read story after story of hospitals, physicians, and more, who long ago saw the natural requirement to deliver better quality to more "customer-patients" at lower costs, as an inevitability, law or no law!  Guess what, it's working!

You might want to read-up on the truths about Canadien healthcare and their economic health to understand the possibilites for "light" that exists.

Abominable Inevitability #2 -- Global Warming 

(Mitigation and Reversal Opportunities, coming soon!)

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Slang for Swag, Seriously?

Slang fads are all the rage, all the time, right? You can't have swag if you don't have current slang, right?

I've always found it fascinating how slang fads come and go. Most become part of our language for a while then fade (but not soon enough), right? If you're using an outdated slangerization you're not cool.  It's hard to keep up...I know, right? 

Neat, keen, bitchin', groovy, bad, bad a__...on and on ad nauseam. Groovy sucked from the start and didn't last long...until Austin Powers revived it to help us see how stupid we are capable of sounding...wait suck and all its derivatives, that's more yet, right? seriously?  Get out!

It does seem that cool has some kind of classic sense to it though, right? I'm not sure if cool's cousin chill is considered a classic, NOT! I wonder if this is just an English language phenomenon or is it universal.  Certainly the word cliche is of French derivation, so perhaps at least the romantic language speakers are into it, right?

After all the French have forever said n'est ce pas, roughly meaning "isn't it", right?  The Spanish have said "verdad" after just about every other sentence forever, translated loosely as "correct", right?

Perhaps your getting the point...I am sick to death of "right" at the end of every statement.  Do we need that much affirmation? 

By the way, who initiates these fad terms? Probably high school students. I gave credit to a sixth grade classmate for coming up with "neat", but my reach was rather limited at the time. Nonetheless, Roland started neat!

NOW, I would like to start a new American slang term for 2012, but I am not creative enough to do so, so I am borrowing from the French.  Let's finish sentences with d'accord, pronounced dahcore, meaning of accord or agreement, d'accord? You can add some emphasis if you like and say, "Je sais, d'accord" -- in other words, I know, right? D'accord is really cool, d'accord? BTW the French often say "oui, d'accord" if you would like to increase your international swag!

I'm looking forward to viral adoption of this 2012er. We will all sound so coold'accord? 







Friday, November 16, 2012

The Art Cowboy

Said with a western drawl for effect...It would have been 'long about 2000 and 3 as I recall, when my fine young son, Rob, graduated from college with a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree.  From my perspective (prejudiced as it may be) he was already a fairly accomplished painter and sculptor. I must say that much of his work from that time, appeared to have been inspired by drug induced hallucinations! Definitely unique stuff...very cool monsters, with some equine features.

Soon after graduation, Rob gave me a call and advised me that his first career move would be to work at a guest ranch in Colorado for the summer, where he would be a "wrangler" (horse manager and trail ride leader) by day and a "troubadour" (mandolinist in a bluegrass band) by night.  "Works for me", says I, as long as I am not providing funding, enjoy!" Following the summer gig, Rob called to let me know he would be working as the Wrangler for an Elk Hunting Guide in the fall!  "Sounds good, have fun" I encouraged.  I have some intricate and interesting watercolored sketches he did, during that adventure (making fine use of the investment in his education).

In January of the same year, Rob gave me a call. (I've always been pleased that he calls from time to time, frequently to ask for advice, which is occasionally heeded! Rob announced that he had made a career decision (finally).  The general leaning had been toward teaching art full-time and continuing to paint and so on, and I presumed that was what I was about to hear. 

Rob said, "I think I want to be a Cutting Horse Trainer"!  Whaddaya think Pop?"  LONG PAUSE...and I have forgotten exactly what I said, but I believe it was something encouraging to whatever he wanted to do, but I suspect the tone was missing.  I know I was thinking deep inside, "is something wrong with my boy?"

Fast forward 10 years, Rob is in fact managing and showing Cutting Horses. If you're wondering what a Cutting Horse is, well that's one in the photo below and Rob is the fellow atop.



Cutting horses are especially trained quarter horses and the "Cutting Events" are very competitive AND the sport is rather expensive, no scratch "rather", replace with "significantly" expensive!  It's a wealthy person's game.

Rob entered this world by searching the web for the best trainers in the country...the epicenter for 'Cutting" happens to be in Texas, near Fort Worth. So Rob worked for a couple of the top people in the sport for a few years, then was hired by some fine folks to manage their horses.  Those fine folks happen to be a couple from California (the husband is a major film producer) think The Dark Knight and about 100 other films.

Rob splits his time between their ranch in the Santa Barbara area and another near Fort Worth, and traveling all over the place to show the horses, including his own mare.  Last show (10-2012): Lyon, FRANCE, Yep you heard it right. (He called ol' Pop for attire advice for dinner at a famous chef's 5- star restaurant while there.)

Finally to wrap up this proud Pop rant, Rob is still finding time for art. How I can't imagine. He won an award and the placement of one of his pieces in the Western Modern Art show, currently exhibiting in Tucson. It's called Traffic...








Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Healthcare the right way! (not an ad)

Wouldn't be awesome if healthcare facilities felt more like resorts or at least cool hotels? Well, the good news is it is beginning to happen all over the world.  Healing as a process progresses better in better environments for the patients and their families. Not a breakthrough, thought, right? It's, like well yeah! Figuring out how to do it is another story. Let me tell you, the team that put this project together up near Princeton, NJ, got it right!

The owners and operators at Capital Health turned to the programming and project development professionals at Anchor Health Properties. Paula Crowley and her team led a collaborative design and construction project that by all accounts is one of the best projects in this category EVER!

Bistro, spa, coffee bars, quality and varietal dining, are part of the "hospitality feel" that is so evident. Medical office suites neatly connected to acute care and outpatient services, private entrances and gardens for oncology patients, on and on it goes.  Water features, parks, children's indoor and outdoor entertainment areas AND multiple "things to do" venues for everyone. (Guess what, it keeps the loved ones around more...yep, aiding in the healing process.)

Here is the part that got me...the art collection and murals (all wisely chosen) and benefactors cited for each piece, which of course made it all possible. I said "if I need a healthcare procedure, I'm coming here, and I refuse to be an outpatient!"  I want at least two days to spend in the museum like collections on every floor!" The place is incredible. Hat's off to HKS Architects and Array Healthcare Facilites Solution, particularly Shane Williams and Marsha Whitt. 

Capital Health Hopewell, New Jersey

Friday, November 9, 2012

Siri and me

If you don't have Siri or her cousin, Googlette, you are missing a special relationship opportunity. Seriously, she is an excellent assistant, text, call, make appt, search, etc. Warning, she is all techno and deals with what she is given!  Check out this experience:

Me: Siri, you are so cool! You never cease to amaze me.
Siri: No problem, Hal
Me: What are my appointments for today?
Siri: this and that, blah, blah 

(All perfectly enunciated and detailed for me, freaking awesome!)

Me: New appointment to Visit Mom on the 17th
Siri: Okay, shall I search contacts for Mom? 
Me: Sure, Mary Matthews
Siri: Okay, got it.
Me: Remind me...
Siri: Shall I remind you that Mary Matthews is Mom.
Me: No thanks, I think I can remember that one!

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Now what?

I promised myself just to be fun here, but I decided to compromise for just a moment!

The talking heads are talking a lot about what the numbers say to the two parties, and how they will find their relevance, but here's the real Kennedyesque question: What does the incredible close popular votes mean to each of us as individuals? In other words, "ask not what your country can do for you..."

Well, you could say we have a balance of opinion, or you could say we are quite polarized, or even gridlocked!  On the other hand you could say that we need to find some way to get past all of this rhetoric (thank goodness the ads have stopped) and make some progress. 

In fact that maybe exactly what we need to do as individual committed citizens. Think compromise, think moderation. First step, talk to our neighbors and friends without a mindset of I'm right and your wrong; and discuss creative solutions to our challenges. 

Second step, think about sharing those creative ideas and take the time to write our representatives and say, "hey you, walk across the aisle, would you? Find some civility, and look for ways to get things done!" Our elderly and our young NEED you to do a good job of finding common ground."

BTW - I talk to my Dad from time to time.  He died when I was very young, so he only talks back when he has something profound to say or is struck by sincere curiosity. I mentioned that our President, who happens to be an African American was re-elected and defeated a strong contender who happens to be a Morman. Dad said, "very cool, but I don't know what religion African American is."

Transcendental Coordination

730 breakfast meeting with an alliance group of mine, Mrs. Boss and Mr. Boss in tow! Take a look at these clowns, the Tres Lavenderos! Fact is we are all very different, but we do seem to be in harmony most of the time. So, I figure, during the night, my people talked to their people transcendentally and laid out our clothes. 

Problem is we can't get our office mates to believe this wasn't planned.  Moreover, we are conspicuously goofy looking together. Oh well, we're headed to lunch, trying to find a place that doesn't clash with our outfits!